Give Jesus Control: Transforming Your Words And Your Heart

In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. We often
find ourselves caught up in a world of negative communication, where fear, anger, jealousy, and
comparison prevail. Our words, influenced by the negativity around us, can become a reflection
of our hearts. But what if there was a way to regain control, to transform our words and our
hearts? The answer lies in giving Jesus complete control over who we are. Let’s explore the
power of surrendering to Jesus and allowing Him to guide and direct our words and our lives.


Acknowledge the Negative Communication

In Romans, Paul reminds us of the prevalence of negative communication in our world. He
describes how our tongues can deceive, and our mouths can be filled with curses and
bitterness. It’s crucial to observe and admit that we are surrounded by this negativity. Whether
it’s the news, our social media feeds, our relationships, or the media we consume, we must
acknowledge that the words we speak are often influenced by the words we hear. We become a
reflection of what we feed ourselves. This realization is the first step towards transformation.


Humility and Dependence

Once we recognize the negative communication around us, we must have humility about our
own struggles. We cannot presume that the problem lies solely with others; we must
acknowledge our own role in perpetuating negativity. Like Isaiah, who confessed, “Woe is me,
I’m lost. I’m a man of unclean lips,” we too must recognize our own shortcomings. It is essential
to cultivate humility and dependence on God in this area of our lives. As the psalmist writes, “Let
the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight.” Our focus
should be on pleasing God, even in the quietness of our frustrations and private conversations.


Overcoming Cognitive Dissonance

Abraham’s faith was put to the ultimate test. He faced a moment of extreme cognitive
dissonance – the conflict between what he believed about God and the seemingly contradictory
command he received. It is in these moments that many believers falter and give up. They
cannot reconcile the goodness of God with the difficult circumstances they face. But Abraham
did not give in to cognitive dissonance. He chose to trust God, even when he didn’t understand.


The Unchanging Nature of God

As we strive to transform our words and our hearts, we must remember that our efforts will
sometimes fall short. We will stumble, and there will be moments when we fail to say the right
things or remain silent when we should speak. But in these moments, we can find solace in
God’s unchanging nature. He is our rock, providing stability and strength. He is our redeemer,
freeing us from the bondage of negative communication. We can turn to Him, repent, and seek
His guidance. The psalmist’s plea, “Oh Lord, my rock and my redeemer,” resonates with our
need for God’s power to change us.


Engaging with God’s Word

To truly internalize the transformation we seek, we must engage with God’s Word. Memorizing
and meditating on verses like “Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be
acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer” can help us align our thoughts and
words with God’s will. However, mere memorization is not enough; we must allow these words
to penetrate our hearts and guide our actions. By immersing ourselves in Scripture, we invite
God’s power to change us from within.


Surrendering Control to Jesus

The key to transforming our words and our hearts lies in surrendering control to Jesus. It’s not
about trying to become better on our own or merely editing our words for a short period of time.
Lasting change comes when we invite Jesus to take the reins of our lives. Just as a ship’s
rudder is guided by a pilot or a horse is steered by a rider, our words and actions should be
directed by Jesus. By surrendering control to Him, we allow Him to lead us in all aspects of our
lives. We must make Him the pilot, the rider, and the one who guides our every step.


Breaking the Cycle

For many of us, breaking the cycle of negative communication can be challenging. We may
have grown up in environments where negativity was the norm, or we may have developed
habits that are hard to break. However, we must remember that Jesus has the power to
transform us overnight. It doesn’t matter where we come from, what our family was like, or what
we have been exposed to in the past. When we give Jesus complete control, He can break the
chains of negativity and replace them with words of life and encouragement.


Walking with Jesus

Transforming our words and our hearts is not a one-time event; it’s a lifelong journey. It requires
walking with Jesus daily, seeking His guidance and wisdom in every situation. Whether we are
in the office, at home, or in private, our goal should be to speak words that are acceptable in
God’s sight. By allowing Jesus to walk with us, we can experience His transformative power in
every aspect of our lives. It’s not about perfection but about progress and growth as we become
more like Him.


Surrounding Ourselves with Positivity

While it’s crucial to acknowledge the negative communication around us, we must also surround
ourselves with positivity. Just as we can be influenced by negativity, we can also be influenced
by uplifting and encouraging words. Surrounding ourselves with people who speak life,
consuming media that inspires and uplifts, and engaging in activities that promote positivity can
all contribute to the transformation of our words and our hearts. By immersing ourselves in a
positive environment, we create fertile ground for Jesus to work in us.


The Power of Prayer

In our journey to transform our words and our hearts, we must never underestimate the power
of prayer. Prayer is the gateway to communication with God, and through prayer, we can seek
His guidance, strength, and wisdom. When faced with challenging situations or the temptation to
speak negatively, we can turn to prayer as a source of comfort and support. By bringing our
struggles to God, we invite Him to work in us and through us, aligning our words with His truth
and love.


The Accountability of Community

Transforming our words and our hearts is not a solo endeavor; it requires the support and
accountability of a community. Surrounding ourselves with like-minded individuals who are also
striving to give Jesus control over their words can provide encouragement, guidance, and
support. Accountability partners can help us stay on track, challenge us when necessary, and
offer a listening ear when we stumble. Together, we can grow and learn from one another,
strengthening our commitment to speak life and build others up.


The Fruit of Transformation

As we surrender control to Jesus and allow Him to transform our words and our hearts, we will
begin to see the fruit of our efforts. Our words will become a source of life and encouragement
to those around us. We will no longer be bound by negativity but will radiate the love and truth of
Jesus. Our relationships will be enriched, and our impact on others will be profound. The
transformation of our words and our hearts is not only for our benefit but for the benefit of those
around us. It’s an opportunity to be vessels of God’s love and grace in a world that desperately
needs it.


Conclusion

In a world filled with negative communication, it’s easy to be swayed by the words we hear and
speak. But as followers of Jesus, we have the power to transform our words and our hearts. By
acknowledging the negativity around us, cultivating humility and dependence on God, engaging
with His Word, and surrendering control to Jesus, we can experience a profound transformation.
As we walk with Jesus, surround ourselves with positivity, pray fervently, and embrace the
accountability of community, we will see the fruit of our efforts. Let us give Jesus full control over
our words and our hearts, allowing Him to guide and direct us every step of the way.

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